Showing posts with label charity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label charity. Show all posts

Saturday, November 1, 2014

HGTV/DIY: Do You Donate What you Remove to a Charity?

A typical dumpster in Sunnyvale, California.
A typical dumpster in Sunnyvale, California. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
My daughter and I were talking about what a poor example DIY and HGTV set for their viewers. Specifically, we were discussing the all important dumpster that shows up in front of the house and what goes into it.

She had been watching one of the DIY TV Crasher shows (Yard, Kitchen, House, etc.) and was appalled to see the enthusiastic workers throwing french doors, cabinets, sinks and lights into the dumpster so they could make a big crash when they hit all the waste buried below. Enough things were thrown away that a whole house could have been built using what they broke being destructive.

There are places that want (and need) those things. For example, Habitat for Humanity gathers all those things and either uses them to build a new house or sells them to people like you and me to raise funds for their cause. Veteran groups, Salvation Army and even the local second hand dealer can re-purpose many things and our landfills will not be overflowing with porcelain toilets and cabinets that a designer considered a little out dated.

So hear is a message for all you home improvement TV shows; please remember, people follow your example so be one worth following! Show people how they can salvage what they remove and either sell it or donate it to a good cause...please

Just a thought.

b+

Monday, October 1, 2012

Charity Begins with a Book: 10 STEPS to Finding Your HAPPY PLACE (and Staying There)

"You will find it hard to keep yourself from smiling as you read through this enjoyable guide. Indeed, happiness may unsuspectedly sneak right in."
--Sandra Pawula, AlwaysWellWithin.com

Do you remember the the Nunchucks Nana?  She was a guest blogger here last April. Her pen name is Galen Pearl but I called her the Nunchucks Nana because she earned a black belt in Taekwondo in her sixties and her guest post was related to that experience.

Now Galen Pearl has written a book called 10 Steps to Finding Your Happy Place (and Staying There). The book is the result of 3+ years of writing a very popular blog by the same name. I am one of her many followers. Each story carries a lesson. The fact that she is a single mother that has raised 5 children should be enough to fill many books. The journey has not been easy. She has raised two autistic sons and three beautiful daughters while working at a career as a college professor. Many of the story lessons are related to those experience.

When a person is given the gift of words that speak to the soul, I stand in awe. Her thoughts resonate as she writes about personal anecdotes and the lessons they have taught her. The 10 Steps to Happiness come alive as she talks about her life stories and how they are related to the tenets she sets forth.

I think any parent or grandparent could relate to Galen Pearl's advise. In one chapter she told about her daughter Mia's impulse to quit because she had discovered that learning to playing lacrosse was hard. "I quit!" is not something any mother or grandmother for that matter wants to hear from the children. I loved the idea that she didn't make her daughter feel like a failure because she wanted to quit or even talk about how hard it was to begin a new adventure. Best of all, she didn't give her daughter the age old lecture on the evils of quitting. She focused on the tiny steps it can take to accomplish something as daunting a learning to play a new sport. Galen wrote:
 My daughter Mia is a natural athlete.  She played basketball during her growing up years.  She played during the season on her school team and during the off-season in hoop clubs. Then in high school she wanted to switch to a new sport, lacrosse.  But when she came home from the first practice, she announced that she was going to quit. When I asked her why, she said in frustration, "I don't know how to play." 
 I casually asked her how long she had been playing lacrosse.  
She frowned and snorted in exasperation. "Two hours."
"Well," I suggested, "why don't you play two more hours before you decide." 
Another story told about an an early lesson she learned about the value of fun from a professional who was helping her deal with summer vacations spent with her autistic son. She saw those summers as a time for getting things done and making progress in helping her son work through his challenges. She wrote:
One spring I was talking to James's developmental psychologist.  We were going over several options for James's summer. One option I dismissed quickly by saying, "That one would just be fun." The doctor leaned forward until he was sure he had eye contact and I was paying attention. Then he said slowly and deliberately, "Fun...is...good." 
I guess all those years of training paid off for him [the psychologist], because that was one of the smartest things I ever heard. 
The Author
As a young person, Galen Pearl was a hippie searching for meaning in her life. She fished for salmon in Alaskan waters and hitch hiked her way to South American...all before she earned her degree in law. In the years since she has been a world traveler, an expat working as a lawyer abroad, an educator, and now a retired law professor. She teaches workshops sharing her inspirations. But she is first and foremost the single mother of those 5 adopted children. 

I connected with her this last summer when a fellow blogger, Bob Lowry, came to Portland for a visit. We visited over tea to make plans for Bob's visit.  She invited me to sit in the living room of her beautiful little house in the Irvington Historic Neighborhood here in Portland. The only reason I even mention the location is because it speaks to the remarkable woman she is. The Irvington neighborhood is very old with lovely gracious houses. Trees push their wild roots several feet above the sidewalks and the houses that line the street speak to an age that is all but forgotten. Gracious is the word I would use to describe Galen Pearl. The little house was home to her 5 children and now two grandchildren visit. She says it is home and that is where she decided to stay even as her family grew.

So I am sure your will understand why most of that first visit was spent talking about our families and shared experiences. She has that way of drawing people into her life when they least expect it. I feel so privileged to have become her friend and I love being able to share this book with you because I have seen and experienced her wisdom first hand.

Why this book now?
But I think the real story here is the WHY. You see Galen has dedicated this book to the Edwards Center here in Portland and all of the proceeds from the sales of the book will go to that cause. The center provides residential and vocational services to adults with developmental disabilities. Her two sons both are residents in the center. She is not only a source of financial help for this non-profit but she also devotes time to developing facilities for the organization. She has not slowed her life in retirement and continues to be an asset to her community.

When I attended the open house for launching 10 Steps to Finding Your Happy Place (and Staying There) in Galen Pearl's home, I found that her publisher, editor, children, grandchildren, and a multitude of friends along with their children had come to help her celebrate. She raised $1000 for the Edwards Center on that afternoon. Now I am hoping that her book will bring not only more money in but also lead the readers to allow themselves to find their "happy place". As she points out, happiness is not something you find out there in the world...it is the way you live. It is "like finding your glasses on top of your head, you wake up and realize that your happiness was here all along." You have to love her words!

The book is available on Amazon in the printed version (my preference) or in the Kindle version.

Amazon Author Biography: Galen Pearl's stories have appeared in Chicken Soup for the Soul and A Cup of Comfort anthologies, and her popular blog, 10 Steps to Finding Your Happy Place (and Staying There), attracts thousands of readers every month. Recently retired from teaching law, she regularly leads retreats and workshops on developing habits to grow a joyful spirit. A Southern girl transplanted to the Pacific Northwest, she enjoys her five kids and two grandchildren, martial arts, her cabin in the mountains, and mahjong.



Thursday, April 26, 2012

Toms Shoes: Why every grandmother and granddaughter need a pair!

A while back I wrote an article for Blog Critics about ATT and their link with Toms Shoes.   ATT created an ad in 2009 that featured the Toms Shoes mission and their connection to ATT phone services. The story was about how Toms Shoes gives away one pair of shoes to children in developing countries for every one purchased. The cause started by Blake Mycoskie has come to be known as the One-for-One Movement.  The TV ad run by ATT was where many people learned about the concept for the first time. In 2006 Toms had sold 10,000 shoes.  By the end of 2010 they had sold their millionth pair.  The rest is history.

Toms Shoes website page
In 2006, American traveler Blake Mycoskie befriended children in Argentina and found they had no shoes to protect their feet. Wanting to help, he created TOMS Shoes, a company that would match every pair of shoes purchased with a pair of new shoes given to a child in need. One for One. Blake returned to Argentina with a group of family, friends and staff later that year with 10,000 pairs of shoes made possible by TOMS customers. from Tom's Shoes Movement

TOMS Shoes
TOMS Shoes (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I love Toms Shoes. I have worn a pair of these shoes for years.  I bought them shortly after seeing the original ad in 2009.  I still wear them when I am in Arizona. They are wash and wear. I don't know how long they would last but I have gotten my money back many times over...and a child somewhere is doing the same. As a grandmother that has seen children without shoes in third world countries I take a lot of satisfaction from that.  I am well aware that disease and infection are a problem for children with no shoes. In fact, children are required to have shoes in order to attend school in many places.  Shoes are important!

Now, it turns out, Toms has become very trendy with the teen set.  My granddaughter came to visit last night.  She will be 15 next month.  My Toms shoes came up in the conversation immediately.  It turns out that they are the in thing at her high school now and all the girls on the dance team are buying them.  Cool doesn't even come close to describing a pair of pink or sparkly Toms on the feet of a girl from the dance team walking down the halls at Glenco High School in Hillsboro, Oregon.

My daughter mentioned that Sketchers have a knock off shoe that looks the same and you can buy them at Target for a lot less!  I don't know if Sketchers is donating a pair of shoes to a child for every one they sell or not.  I am thinking not.  I was a little angry when I realized what they were doing.  Wouldn't that be a bit like using a knock off for the Walk for the Cure to make money but not do any good?  I will not be buying them even if they are cheaper or even better.  It really is just wrong in my world.

This is what I think...you need to go shopping with your granddaughter and you both need a pair of Toms.  You will never regret it and it is the right thing to do!

b

Note:  Toms are available on Amazon, Toms Shoes, and upper end retail stores.

Links:  Sketchers vs. Toms:  How Sketcher shot themselves in the foot!

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