Showing posts with label Retirement community. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Retirement community. Show all posts

Friday, May 20, 2011

Retirement: Living a Social Life....link to 10 tips + Color

I receive emails from people that share my interest in writing about retirement.  The other day I had a note from Mary Edwards regarding an article she had posted about getting to know your neighbors in a retirement community. This is what she had to say:

We posted an article, "10 Tips for Building Relationships in Your Retirement Community”(http://www.bestdatingsites.org/blog/2011/10-tips-for-building-relationships-in-your-retirement-community/), and I thought that you or your readers might find it interesting.
I don't believe I had ever given a thought to ways that you might build relationship in a new setting.  I am the kind that walks out onto the street and just visits with who ever is handy.  But, if I were wanting to build some solid connections with those people that lived close by I think it would take a lot more than that.  I would need a list of 10 ways to connect with other people.  If I were single and wanted to get to know someone to dance with or go see a movie, it might be up to me to let others know I was open to that kind of thing.  Mary's website is for those people that are interested in dating.  

I had a couple of favorites within her list.  The suggestion that we share our grandchildren by taking them out for a walk surely is a conversation starter.  I also like the idea of giving holiday cards and delivering them by hand...a little gift of candy or cookies is always a good accompaniment.  I would suggest that you wear an engraved name pin of some kind. I see that Amazon has a couple of different types.
From Advanced Style...adding color to your life.


Ari Cohen over at Advanced Style talked about a make-over one of his friends had received as a gift.  The lady had been avoiding color in her life and was suffering from the blahs!  I was thinking this morning how color is such a social thing.  A bright color or even a gorgeous scarf invites conversation and comments.  We might even think about how we dress when we are wanting to get to know our neighbors. Color is always a good thing!


I hope you are having a wonderful day.


b

Sunday, March 20, 2011

How to Retire = Learning to be FREE!

Grilled Grandmas:  I am now a member of a select group of woman called Grilled Grandmas.  I was privileged to be selected and interviewed by the Grandma's Briefs Blog this week.  You will find out who I really am when you read my responses!

#259 - Free

Sunday Scribblings

A week in the life of a retiree can be anything you want it to be.  Living in the past or in the future is okay but enjoying this week, day, hour minute is the best ever.  We have declared our FREEDOM and our lives are what we make of them.  I personally don't apologise for the wonderful life we enjoy
Freedom at it's best!
Yesterday we were watching the final game of the bocci ball game season with the game that would determine who was the champion here in the RV Resort.  I know it seems silly to those of you that disdain a game like bocci...there is no thrilling dangerous excitement.  No one gets hurt, or pushed or even yelled at.  It is usually quiet even with 100 people stand around watching.  The loudest noise you will hear is the heart beat of the people competing.  Most people are not used to that kind of attention from a crowd.  I know because we played for the championship pizza last year...and lost.

Then my husband pointed out to me that the 60s Garage Band was playing for a dance nearby...just mention dancing to me and I am dressed and in the car.  We took friends with us and danced until...drum roll and applauding...9:30 pm.  Oh my...we really need to find a place where people stay up later.  But the fact is we were done for the day.  We had played 18 holes of golf the day before, eaten dinner at a nearby retirement community and collapsed in bed at 10:30.  We had gone shopping and running errands between the bocci ball and the dancing and we had cooked dinner on the bar-b-que at around 5:00 o'clock.  We were happily tired and full of the day!

I know you young people make fun of old people...they have lunch at 11:00 am, dinner at 4:00 pm and breakfast a 8:00 pm.  We turn down our bed at 6:30 pm and are in bed by 9:00 pm.  I have heard the routine.  I have even laughed myself...but let me tell you this...for the most part it is all a lie.  We have something that those of you that work will not understand until you have it yourself...FREEDOM!  We can come and go, eat, dance, dress just like we want and when we want.  Trust me, being free is just about the best thing around.
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